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Is It Time to Get Some Help?

Writer's picture: Netalie SagiNetalie Sagi

Updated: Dec 11, 2024

Life can be incredibly challenging, and there are moments when we feel overwhelmed. I once worked with a client named Sarah, who came to me after experiencing a profound loss—the passing of her mother. For months, Sarah had been trying to navigate her grief alone, telling herself she should be “over it” by now. But each day felt heavier, filled with an ache that refused to fade.




Navigating Loss


Grief is a deeply personal journey, and it manifests differently for everyone. Sarah often tried to avoid confronting her feelings, thinking she would “get through it” without addressing the pain. However, this only intensified her suffering, leading to isolation and a sense of hopelessness. It’s essential to understand that acknowledging loss and its accompanying emotions is vital to healing.


The Weight of Anxiety and Stress


Sarah’s story is not unique. Many of us face stressors that can feel insurmountable—job pressures, relationship troubles, or even everyday responsibilities. Like Sarah, you might find yourself caught in a cycle of anxiety that leaves you feeling trapped. If left unchecked, this anxiety can spiral into deeper issues, such as depression or social withdrawal.


Recognizing Signs of Depression


Over time, Sarah began to experience signs of depression—fatigue, a lack of joy in things she once loved, and a persistent self-criticism that echoed in her mind. She often felt helpless and wondered if she would ever feel “normal” again. It’s crucial to realize that depression is not something you can simply “snap out” of. Seeking support can help you reclaim your life and rediscover joy.


Breaking Free from Phobias


For some, fears can become phobias that limit daily life. Sarah also faced anxiety about attending social gatherings, fearing she wouldn’t be able to handle her emotions. These fears can escalate if not addressed, leading to further isolation. Therapy can provide a safe space to confront these fears and learn coping strategies.

Understanding Relationships

Relationships are often at the core of our struggles—whether they involve family, friends, or romantic partners. While they can bring joy and fulfilment, they can also cause stress and conflict. Sarah discovered that her grief had impacted her relationships, causing misunderstandings and emotional distance. Counselling can help you navigate these complexities, fostering healthier connections.


Confronting Unhealthy Habits and Addictions


Sometimes, we turn to unhealthy habits as a means of coping. Sarah began to rely on alcohol to escape her feelings, masking her pain rather than addressing it. Recognizing these patterns is the first step toward change. Therapy can support you in understanding these habits and finding healthier coping mechanisms.


The Journey of Self-Discovery


Ultimately, therapy is a powerful tool for self-discovery. As Sarah spoke openly in our sessions, she began to gain clarity about her emotions and needs. The act of verbalizing her thoughts provided her with insights that she couldn’t access alone. This unique experience of being heard and understood can be transformative, helping you find your own solutions.



If you find yourself facing similar challenges, remember that you don’t have to navigate this journey alone. Seeking help is a courageous step towards healing and understanding. Together, we can explore the path to a brighter, more fulfilling future.



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